Ok, so don't ask why, but I'm currently trying to do a bit of research, and gather some information about people and their lives.

My Question Is:
If you had 3 'wishes' about things that you could change in your life, what would they be? and why?

I'm looking for stuff sorta like:
"Quit smoking, because its bad for my health" or "Buy a Ferrari, because I've always wanted one." or "Get over my fear of spiders, because I don't want to be scared of them anymore."

Stuff like that... although it pretty much can be anything really...

Just don't give me stuff like "I wish I had $10,000,000. Because that would be really cool" or "I wish I was spiderman."

Try to keep it within the general realm of reality.

- Living in a seaside town, that can be in Mediterranean, Central or South America.
- Having a Lamborghini Murcielago, I really like it.
- Going a Victoria's Secret Fashion Show and meeting with VS angels

As a spanish song says:
three things are on life:
Health, money and love
anything more?

i really liked the spiderman idea, but the next best thing:
1. find something to do the rest of my life that i like to do (and makes a lot of money)

2. find somenone or someones to love (i love to love)

3. knowing everything!

Thanks for the info guys. Keep it coming.

I guess I'll share my reason for asking with you.. as it really isn't that important, and in hindsight it seemed rather silly for not just saying upfront.

As I briefly mentioned in my "fashion" topic, I've always been very energetic about continually improving myself, and my life.

This is mainly because I've seen lots of people over the years who seem unhappy with their lives, but seem to lack the motivation or willpower to change them... And If their is one thing I fear more than anything in this life, it's not being happy with who I am, or looking back on my life with regret.

So in addition to my job as a game developer, I've decided to explore the possibility of going into a sort of 'personal adviser' type job. (not sure what I would call it yet) where I would talk with people, help figure out what they really want out of life to make them happy, and then actively help them to getting there.

I'm generally pretty good at giving advise, but I want to be prepared for whatever obstacles, or problems 'normal' people may have. So I've been asking a lot of the people I know, and posting on forums like this to see what some of the more common problems are, so that I know what I need to research more about.

Anyway... thats probably more than you waneted to know, but I thought I would share my thoughts, and let you know why I'm asking these strange questions.

Also let me know what you think about the idea in general, and be honest.

Thanx for being so honest Wolf
Well,I think that its great that you want to do anything to "improve" your life...if everybody would do this,we all would be a lot more happy
As for the personal adviser thing...of course it would be amazing if you could help people like that...but I imagine that it must be really hard and complicated to give everyone the "right" advice...
Anyway,I wish you all the best and hope you could get some help here

Finding love, having my 2.3 children with that person and living happily ever after.

1. finding great love in my life.

2. Having great job(making money)

3. Meeting adriana lima

I would like to have health for me and my family, a good job where i earn a lot of money and that i was proud of and to have another three wishes hehehe

Carpe Diem everyone!!!!

I want to be happy...for the rest of my life.

I want to find that perfect sweetheart

Getting a ticket to the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show.

quote:

Originally posted by Arthur:
having my 2.3 children

Haha Ilove that :P

Okay here are mine. Mostly job related

1. Be in a VS Fashion Show. Yes Lame but its a dream of mine.
2. Become a highly known FashionEditor for Vogue. (lol you never said they had to be easy :P)
3.Meet Gemma Ward

Et Voila Que penser vous de ces trois souhaites?
My spelling is Horribleness

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Originally posted by The Wolf:
I've decided to explore the possibility of going into a sort of 'personal adviser' type job. (not sure what I would call it yet)

I think thats great Wolf

There is a name for it. Its called a Life Coach. They help people find out what they want in life and help them change their attitude to achive it.

mijn 3 wishes: enjoy life, music, love with Ryoni.com and mijn friends and family

Thanks for the input guys.

And thanks 0livia001 for telling me what it's actually called. lol

PS. ZaRA, could you plz tell me the name of the women in your avatar. she seems very pretty.

1) know the meaning of life
2) search for real beauty
3) gain clarity

quite philosophical, eh? and dating alessandra ambrosio would be really splendid, too. hahaha